How many years, should I wait to get married?When is the best age,The best time,Should I wait.. or Just do it??????Help?

Although I'm married but not a marriage counselor, I can offer some ideas. It's hard to get into a persons mind and emotions to determine whether they're ready for marriage or need more time. Of course there's the situation where a person waits and waits until that perfect time which never happens. There's that time when two people date forever and need to make a decision. The answer lies between these two points, and only you can answer that, but there's some ideas that can help.

Have you accomplished necessary events so that you can be ready to live and share your life with another person such as resolve emotional conflicts and uresolved issues within your own life? Did you finish college? Are you established in your career, not to mistake this as the number one goal before getting married, but having some things in place will make the adjustment easier. Meeting with a pastor or counselor is crucial. How will you raise a family, or do you want to start one? When? Where will you attend church, or do your beliefs differ? Where will you live? Jumping into anything can be a costly risk, but knowing what you're up against will make the transition easier. I heard that taking a compatibility test with a counselor is a good idea. The saying is true, you can't live on love. Landlords and such don't understand love when the rent and bills are due. I hope this helps.